Yesterday, our boarders attended the Year 12 Awards Presentation Assembly. This event celebrates the achievements of our Seniors and I was proud to see our Year 12 boarders recognised. It also marks the conclusion to ‘timetabled’ lessons for our Year 12s which means that many of our boarding houses will feel a bit ‘empty’ as the 12s depart for study leave or to get a few weeks of work in before the big end of year celebrations. I am looking forward to these events and the opportunity to thank these boys for their contributions to the boarding community this year. I would also like to wish them all the very best for their exams over the next month.
Whilst I have already commented upon them in the Blue and Gold last week, I did want to highlight the Boarding Parents' Appreciation Afternoon and the Year 12 activity to GC Wake Park events once more. These two events clearly demonstrate the strength of the TGS community. The coming together and support that exists between the boarding and day school families, and that special bond that only comes from sharing a dorm, are evidence that Toowoomba Grammar School is a special place to be.
As we look back at these events and acknowledge what has happened over the course of the year, I am also excited to look forward to 2024. Last Friday, our 2024 Prefects were inducted in a special assembly, a tradition that reaches back into the early history of the School - 1910. I congratulate those boarders selected as School Prefects, all of our House Captains, Alistair McKay who has the honour of leading the School as the Senior Prefect as well as Stuart Officer who leads the boarding community as the Senior Boarding Prefect for 2024. I look forward to working with these young men throughout the next 12 months.
The Boarding program for Term 4 is well underway and I am pleased to report that breakfast BBQs have returned, as well as the initiation of some morning boxing fitness sessions that contribute to our wellbeing program. Can I remind all parents that there are a number of boarding activities available for sign up on the Parent Lounge. These are in addition to some of the School-based activities we offer such as pool and gym sessions on weekends.
Providing our boarders, and their parents, with a voice and input into the boarding program contributes to an increased sense of wellbeing for our boarders. As Term 4 progresses, I will be working with our House Captains to facilitate opportunities for boarder feedback and planning for 2024. Many of you are aware that as part of settling into the Boarder Parents' Support Group Presidents role, Steph Smart has aided me in constructing a survey to go out to parents. Steph and I want to make sure that the BPSG supports the boarding program and I value the ideas and suggestions of parents.
Below are some photos of our boys enjoying some Laser Tag Skirmish fun and I’m looking forward to other boarders' activities over the next couple of weeks. I welcome any communication from parents regarding the TGS Boarding program.
From the Boarder Parents' Support Group
Ponderings from the BPSG President
For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Stephanie Smart, and I have recently been elected as the President of the Boarder Parents' Support Group. I am taking over from Kym Wright who was President for the past five years. I would like to acknowledge the contribution Kym has made to the TGS boarding community and I wish Kym all the best for her next chapter and life, beyond schooling children.
A little bit about myself; my husband Ben and I are four years into our boarding journey at TGS. We have two boys who board in Mackintosh house, Josh in Year 10 and Archie in Year 9. We also have a daughter, Ella who is home with us for one more year before we become empty nesters. We live on a cattle property near Crows Nest. We also own and operate an Aerial Agricultural Business and Helicopter Maintenance Business near Cecil Plains. Even though we live reasonably close to Toowoomba I am accustomed boarding and distance. I was a boarder myself for five years. I grew up on a cattle station near Cloncurry and lived eight hours away from the school I attended. I never went home during the school term, and it was rare that my family could come and visit, so I can very much relate to boarding families who live great distances away.
Since being elected as President I have focused on understanding the position and what it entails. I have met with and am now in regular communication with the Director of Boarding, Nick Byron who has been extremely helpful and accommodating. I also spent most of the first day of term at TGS meeting with administration and boarding house staff (still haven’t got around to everyone) and have had an online meeting with the BPSG Representatives. It has been a busy few weeks of introductions, listening, seeking clarification and information gathering. My goal is to identify and understand what the priorities need to be and the direction we need to head so that we can continue to improve boarding at TGS and support our boarding families.
Please do not hesitate to reach out and connect with myself and/or your House Representative if you need help, we are all here to support you on your TGS boarding journey.
BPSG House Reps
I am looking forward to the challenge of taking on this position and I am privileged to have a wonderful group of women who have been nominated to represent the individual boarding houses and support me.
Here is some information so you can get to know them.
Name: Stephanie Smart
House: Mackintosh/BPSG President
How long have you been a boarding parent at TGS: 4 years
How long have you been a BPSG Representative: 1 year Corfe, 4 weeks President of BPSG
Where are you located: Cattle Property near
Crows Nest QLD (with husband Ben)
TGS Boarder/s: Josh Year 10, Archie Year 9
Other Children: Ella Year 5
Phone: 0417 421 133
Email: s.smart@twgs.qld.edu.au
Name: Megan Officer
House: Stephens/ BPSG Secretary
How long have you been a boarding parent at TGS: 7 years
How long have you been a BPSG Representative: 3 years
Where are you located: Cattle/cropping property near Yelarbon QLD (with husband Will who is a TGS Old Boy)
TGS Boarder/s: Stuart Year 11 (2024 Senior Boarding Prefect)
Previous TGS Boarder/s: Henry, Graduated 2020
Other Children : Lauren, Graduated from Glennie in 2019 Phone: 0419 212 208
Email: wmofficer@bigpond.com
Name: Susan Cameron
House: Groom
How long have you been a boarding parent at TGS: 6 years
How long have you been a BPSG Representative: 1 year
Where are you located: Cattle property near Roma QLD (with husband Brad who is a TGS Old Boy)
The Boarder Appreciation Function was held on the first day back this term. It was a lovely evening and a wonderful way to acknowledge and appreciate how our TGS Day Families support our boarding boys and their parents. For those who couldn’t attend please see my speech from the night https://bit.ly/3Q1rDsN
Congratulations to all the boys who have been elected to leadership positions. They will start stepping up and taking on more responsibility as our 2023 leaders come to the end of their TGS journey.
Wishing all the 2023 seniors all the very best as they prepare for their final exams.
Parents Have Your Say
To get a better understanding of what we need to focus on in the next 12 months, we want to give boarding parents the opportunity to provide feedback on the function the BPSG provides and the boarding program at TGS. We ask that you take the time to participate so that we can better serve you and your boys.
And for those parents who have a boy graduating in a few weeks and this is your last year at TGS – we absolutely value your feedback too, please have your say before you leave us.
We are going to be revamping our BPSG meetings, the outcomes we hope to achieve is to have higher parent engagement & more accountability and transparency around matters raised. We will be introducing a “Progress of Priorities” that will be reported on in the fortnightly BT so that parents are kept up-to-date with outcomes from the meetings and all matters raised will have agreed actions, assigned person responsible and a due date.
Individual Boarding House WhatsAPP Parent Group Chat
We will be introducing a WhatsApp House Group Chat for parents in each individual house, this will be monitored by the House Rep and will be a tool used to communicate with parents on general matters such as sending reminders for functions, for parents to ask boarding related questions specific to that house etc.
This chat group will not be the forum to have a whinge or raise issues/concerns.
BPSG Functions
We have a number of exciting changes/improvements to the functions that the BPSG organises, these are the Boarder Appreciation Function, Back to Boarding BBQ & Boarders Mother’s lunch. We are also excited to include a new function to the calendar for the Dads in 2024. More details to follow in due course.
Please make sure you include your feedback/suggestions on these functions in your survey response so that we can take these into consideration when planning.
Also open to suggestions of what we can do for our Boarding Dads!
Resource & Services Hub for Boarding Parents
Another exciting initiative that the BPSG in collaboration with the TGS boarding administration will be implementing is a “Resource & Services Hub for Boarding” some initial ideas of things to include are:
Services:
Tutoring – list of tutors available & perhaps students who would like to tutor.
Name label sewing service.
Blazer drycleaning service
Resources:
Homesickness resource for Parents & Boarders – this could include a short video clip of older boys/parents who have outgrown it and their tips for coping.
Parents survival guide – including what to pack list, advice & hacks etc.
Programs:
Adopt a Boarder – for those boarders who never get to go on leave during the term, ask TGS families/ P & F if they would be willing to sign up and take boarders out on leave for day/weekend – could be included in enrolment package for new families.
Billet a day teacher or boarding staff – to encourage day teaching staff & boarding staff to visit boarding families on holidays so they have a better understanding of how to relate to boarders.
Again, we encourage your feedback/suggestions on what we could include to offer more support to our boarding families. https://bit.ly/46xsSWw
Online Uniform ordering
Something we are working towards for 2024 is to have an online ordering App available for the uniform shop and some of the services in the hub.
NEXT BPSG MEETING
Date: 22 January 2024
Time: 3:30pm
Location: Old Hall
All parents are welcome to attend in person or online via teams link.
The meeting will be followed by the Back to Boarding BBQ held at the TGS Pavilion from 5pm – 7pm.
If you have a matter, you would like raised at the meeting please email me, your House rep or Nick
What's Cookin'...
Boarders' Activities Term 4
Boarding Back Then
Boyce House
From the Head of Boyce House - Michael Hall
The Importance of the Partnership Between Parents and Staff to Engage Students in Boarding
Partnering with parents and educators is crucial in the holistic development of children. As recently mentioned by an esteemed colleague of mine, Dr Linda Evans, "Parents are a child's first educator and we cannot underestimate the importance of their perspectives in assisting educators to know their students better." This collaborative approach helps create a supportive and nurturing environment that can positively impact a child's educational, social, emotional and cognitive growth. Here are some of the key reasons why partnering with parents and educators in boarding is so important:
Consistency and continuity: When parents and educators work together, they can ensure that the child's learning experiences at home and in school are aligned. This consistency helps children understand and retain information more effectively.
Social and emotional development: Collaboration between parents and educators enables the identification and support of a child's social and emotional needs. This, in turn, helps children develop crucial skills like empathy, resilience and effective communication.
Enhanced learning outcomes: When parents and educators communicate and coordinate, they can identify learning challenges early on and address them proactively, leading to improved academic performance and overall learning outcomes.
Positive role modelling: Children learn by example, and when they see their parents and educators working together as a team, they learn valuable lessons about teamwork, collaboration and problem-solving. This assists the house staff to build trust and a sense of family connectivity with the students when on campus and beyond.
Comprehensive support network: Parents and educators can share resources and knowledge, offering a broader support network for the child. This can be particularly important when dealing with issues like learning disabilities or behavioural challenges.
Better communication skills: Collaborative partnerships between parents and educators encourage open and effective communication. This helps in building trust, resolving conflicts and sharing feedback for the child's benefit.
Parental empowerment: Partnering with educators empowers parents to take a more active role in their child's education. It equips them with the knowledge and skills to support their child's learning journey effectively.
A well-rounded education: By working together, parents and educators can create a more well-rounded educational experience for the child, including a balance between academic, extracurricular and life skills development.
In summary, the importance of partnering with parents and educators in the development of children cannot be overstated. This collaboration fosters a supportive and nurturing environment, where the child's needs are met holistically, ultimately leading to better educational outcomes and a well-rounded character development. All very much at the heart of the Toowoomba Grammar School educational experience.
Thank You to Pat and his Team
2023 has been a wonderfully successful year for Boyce House. A great deal of this success has to do with the management team and their cohort members that have effectively created opportunities for their peers to develop a strong sense of belonging in Boyce House and shine in various moments throughout the year.
One of the privileges of working with students in boarding is that the educational opportunities are not only delivered by staff but also by the students too. Students can teach us how to manage, stay calm, respect others, listen attentively and see the world in a way that adults may overlook.
I can honestly say that Pat, Will, Carter, Beau, Harry, Walter, Alec, Jake, Cory, Drummond, Tom and Rahul have given us an education that we will never forget. I have been in awe of their maturity in challenging situations and how much they have added through self-investment in everything that is Boyce and Toowoomba Grammar School.
Academics - Congratulations to the Pro Summa Diligentia Award Recipients for Term 3
Congratulations to the following students for demonstrating consistent applied effort to all of their subjects throughout the entirety of Term 3, 2023.
Chris Piccini
Henry Ballinger
Emmanuel Geu
Dom Black
Hamish Marshall
Drummond Whitaker
Pat Savill
Sport & Activities
Congratulations to 2nd Warrant Officer, Tom Knudsen on representing the House and School recently in the annual Cadets Marching Out Parade. Tom is one of the senior leaders within the corps at Toowoomba Grammar School. The skill and discipline displayed on the day of the parade was fantastic to witness. Well done to Tom and his fellow cadet members.
House Matters
Year 10 Leadership Project - In Week 1 of this term, a group of Year 10 students met for the first of a series of interactive sessions designed to promote better understandings of the multiple forms of leadership and how they connect with these styles. It was great to hear some of the boys' feedback and insights into the role models that they respect as leaders. Some of the boys commented on past House Captains such as Lachie Williams and 2023 captain, Pat Savill.
Dining Hall Layout - The boys are currently trialling a new layout of the Centenary Dining Hall. The School is always looking for ways to improve the services offered to boys and assist staff in maintaining proper standards. We invite the boys to give feedback with consideration to giving it time and looking for opportunities within some of the challenges created in the new landscape.
Welcome Miss Jess Ryder - We have a morning manager commencing soon in Boyce House to assist with the management of the House – Miss Ryder will be assisting me and Mr Doherty with morning shifts only and an occasional Monday evening.
Year 7 Orientation Visit to Boyce - On Sunday evening of Week 2, Boyce Senior House students had the pleasure of hosting their Year 7 compatriots from Corfe House. This is another stage in the initiative by Corfe Head of House, Mr Henry White. It was lovely to enjoy the company of the younger lads and hopefully alleviate any fear and anxiety about moving up to the Senior House. We look forward to welcoming them again over the coming weeks.
Corfe House
Corfe Courier
A word from Henry White, Head of House
Dear Corfe Boarding Families of 2023, we’re back!
I’m thrilled to announce that our Corfe boarders have returned to Term 4 with a newfound sense of maturity, a willingness to cooperate and a positive mindset. Janelle and I have shared many excited conversations about what we’ve observed so far – they’ve grown up! In mirroring the boys' emotional development, we’ve also noticed a great deal of physical development over the recent holiday, with many of our boys returning at least an inch taller! While the boarding house is starting to look a little bit cramped, the boys are navigating the space with a calm and positive demeanour.
An Odd Feeling...
I can’t help but sense an odd feeling of anticipation at this early stage of Term 4. Even as I write this communication, the entire campus feels as if it is preparing for the end. At the top end of the School, the Year 12s final days are approaching, and the 2024 School Prefects have been selected. With these developments, we see a trickling of excitement within our own ranks as our Year 7 boarders continue their gradual transition into Senior Boarding and our Year 6 boarders begin to consider their role as leaders in Corfe House in 2024.
These significant milestones bring with them great excitement as we look ahead. However, for some, this period also brings a sense of anticipation and trepidation. For me, I’m filled with a sense of satisfaction as I observe and reflect on just how far our boarders have come this year, although I am mindful of just how rapidly I anticipate this term will be, and how a young boarder might feel when considering this. In Term 4, we remind boys often to pause, breathe and take a moment. We have adopted a narrative about legacy and encourage boys to finish strong and with a positive mindset.
While Term 4 brings with it warmer and longer days, as well as positive and exciting discussions, it also brings with it a heightened sense of stress, particularly concerning academic pressure and exams. To counter this, we are gently preparing boys so that they feel ready, and we are encouraging good study habits to ensure they are confident, thus less likely to feel the pinch come exam time.
Should you, at any point, feel that your son is struggling, please communicate this to us so that we can heighten our support during this period.
A Rapid Term...
As mentioned in a previous communication, for those yet to peruse the TGS Calendar for Term 4, may I please request that you do so. Term 4 is rapid! While it’s our shortest term, we somehow still manage to make it one of the busiest. Please note a few important dates below to assist you in planning for end-of-term collection and any potential midterm visits.
Week 3
Saturday, 21 October – Fairholme Spring Carnival
Sunday, 22 October – Fishing Trip to Leslie Dam
Sunday, 22 October – Corfe House Grand Central Trip
Week 4
Sunday, 29 October – St Margaret’s Girls School Social (At St Marg’s)
Week 5
Sunday, 5 November – Sommerville House Social (At Southbank)
Week 6
Friday, 10 November – Year 7 Corfe House Graduation
(not parent facing)
Friday, 10 November – Junior School Year 6 Dinner
Saturday, 11 November – Wet n Wild!
Sunday, 12 November – Corfe House Grand Central Trip
Week 7
Thursday, 16 November – Corfe Year 7s move into Senior Houses
Saturday, 18 November – Lake Cooby Fishing and Service Trip
Week 8
Thursday, 23 November – Holidays commence at 3:10pm
Friday, 24 November – Boarders’ Travel Day
A Note About Our Year 7 Graduation Dinner
I’d like to take this opportunity to clarify a few points concerning the ‘Corfe House Graduation’, scheduled for Friday, 10 November. Following a few discussions with families about this specific event, it is evident there is some confusion. The scheduled event is a formal dinner for Year 7 Corfe boys, Corfe staff and the 2024 House Captains and House Vice Captains.
Rather than a formal parent-facing event, we see this dinner as the final stage of the Year 7 Transition Program, and an important opportunity for the boys to share one final dinner together before moving on to the next stage of their boarding journey.
At the conclusion of the dinner, 2024 Senior Boarding House Captains will escort Year 7 boarders to their respective houses where they will be greeted by their new Head of House and housemates and formally welcomed with a supper.
While the boys will return to Corfe House that evening and reside here until they officially move their belongings to their new house on Thursday, 16 November, we refer to this graduation evening as their final evening as Corfe boarders.
Corfe Year 7 Senior Transition Program – a detailed outline
As requested, please see below all scheduled dates for the Year 7 Senior Transition Program in Term 4, and a few photos from Weeks 1 and 2. In summary, the program takes place each Sunday evening, following a combined House dinner in the Dining Hall. The program is designed to foster relationships between Year 7 boarders and their senior boarding houses, thus easing their transition in 2024. Current Year 6 boarders are included within this Transition Program to give them a taste of what’s to come in 2025.
Sunday, 8 October (Week 1)
2024 House Captains and House Vice Captains join us for a BBQ Dinner and oval games.
Sunday, 15 October (Week 2)
Corfe boys attend evening Prep in their senior house.
Sunday, 22 October (Week 3)
Senior houses send a delegate from Years 8, 9 and 10 to Corfe for supper and discussion, including FAQs and what to expect next year.
Sunday, 29 October (Week 4)
Corfe boys depart to respective senior houses for a formal tour led by 2024 House Captains.
Sunday, 5 November (Week 5)
Corfe boys depart to respective senior houses for evening routines, supper and student-led assembly.
Friday, 10 November (Week 6)
2024 House Captains and House Vice Captains attend Year 7 Corfe House Graduation Dinner in Old Hall. Year 7 Corfe boarders are escorted by House Captains back to respective senior houses for supper and official welcome.
Thursday, 16 November (Week 7)
2024 House Captains and House Vice Captains assist in moving Year 7 boarders into senior houses. Year 7 Corfe boarders officially transition into their senior boarding houses.
Friday, 17 November (Week 7) – Thursday, 23 November (Week 8)
Year 7 boarders reside in senior houses for the final week of Term 4.
As previously mentioned, I’m thrilled to announce that Mr Kabe Cicolini has been appointed to the position of Assistant Head of Corfe House. I look forward to working closely with Kabe in ensuring that our crop of 2024 boarders finish the year well.
Please see a noted from Kabe below:
Hi Everyone. My name is Kabe Cicolini and I am delighted to take on the role of Assistant Head of House in Corfe. My fiancée, Hannah, our Kelpie/Collie ‘Tilly’ and Boxer ‘Brax’ are very keen to move on campus and get involved in all that the Corfe community has to offer.
My journey at TGS has spanned a decade, primarily in the capacity of Head of Sport for Basketball. Over the years, I have accumulated some really rewarding boarding experiences, including time in Corfe in 2011/12. Additionally, I've had the opportunity to contribute to the boarding communities of Ipswich Grammar School and Concordia Lutheran College.
As a GPS Old Boy myself (IGS, 2002-2006), I genuinely appreciate the exceptional education and opportunities provided by schools like TGS. Reflecting, I recognise the sacrifices my family made to afford me the privilege. TGS is unique, however. My first impressions were, and after 10 years continue to be, that our School has a warm and welcoming community based in humility and hospitality and our staff always put our boys first.
Consequently, my passion lies in ensuring that your young men make the most of their time at TGS, seizing every opportunity for personal growth, development, building lasting relationships, and creating memories. My goal is to empower them to make informed decisions, take charge of their boarding experience and evolve into ‘good blokes’.
I am looking forward to collaborating with Henry and the Corfe Staff to continue the positive and supportive environment that they foster. Our aim is to provide them with the freedom to lead, to immerse themselves in activities that excite them, and take true ownership of their experiences here. It is not about participating; it is about enabling them to shape their own unique adventures. We are dedicated to empowering them to become independent thinkers and leaders, well-prepared for life beyond TGS.
I look forward to meeting everyone shortly.
Groom House
Groom Gazette
A Time of Transition – and Forever Bonds
It has been a great start to the year in Groom House. The weather has been wonderful and the boys have been making the most of being out and about as much as they can. The House is running like clockwork, thanks to the maturity of the new Year 11 House leaders which has allowed the Year 12 boys to concentrate on their final assessments and exams. As always, it is a short but busy term and the boys are active. Jonah, Joe and Ed Beattie are competing in GPS Track and Field events. Jackson Haynes, Fraser Judd and Oli Lethbridge are often out playing local rep cricket (with great success) and many are also playing in the local adult B-grade competition (with my team beating last year's league winners last weekend – well done Oli Lethbridge and Ed Webster for their important part in this). Alex Reddacliff continues to have success in the water, winning a bronze medal in the 17 years Queensland 5km Open Water Championships last weekend. There are also countless boys out on Mondays and Thursdays playing in the Rugby 7s competition up at Highfields Sports Park.
It is a strange time in the boarding house as the Year 12s prepare to depart. It must be a little like this when a child is about to leave home. Yet it is also a lovely time when we all reflect on the good things about members of our community and what we are going to miss about each other. Over the break I had the pleasure of travelling to the UK with Jon Hall. As many of you know from our conversations, it was cheaper for me to fly myself and Jon to the UK than it was to hire someone in the UK to paint my house. We still own a 17th Century thatched cottage which needed a little TLC and Jon, I am pleased to say, was keen for an adventure! The trip meant that an improved relationship was developed, much like the boys who live in such close proximity to each other in the boarding house. Whilst we were there, we had the pleasure of catching up with James Wootton, who was a gap student 15 years ago and now working at Northampton Saints rugby club. We were also able to head over to Rugby School to see 'Piglet' and his dad (Henry Pigott to those not in the loop!). Hally revelled in some of the William Webb Ellis memorabilia, and we were given an opportunity to, very briefly, play on their rackets courts (rackets is a slightly strange squash-like game, with courts only in 14 UK schools). It was wonderful to have dinner with Henry and reminisce about his time at TGS. He was only here for ten weeks but it has clearly changed his outlook due to the experiences provided by the boys and families of Groom House. His teachers even hope that, despite missing a significant amount of schooling in the UK, his exam results in August next year may be improved from this experience. He clearly misses the camaraderie of Groom House and I know will continue to stay in contact with the boys.
On Monday of Week 3 the boys had the opportunity to dine at Gip’s Restaurant for the annual Boarding House Formal Dinner. I have reproduced speeches from the House dinner given by me, George Griffiths (2023 House Captain) and Cam Gourley (2024 House Captain). I was extremely proud of these boys when they gave their speeches, but upon rereading them for this publication found myself tearfully welling up due to their mature and thoughtful words about those around them and the environment of Groom House that they clearly cherish. The dinner ended with a speech from our newest boarding staff member: Mr Harry Callow. Harry gave some wise words about his experiences at TGS, an insight into a number of challenges which life presented to him and how he overcame these to become, perhaps by chance (but certainly not by lack of dedication and determination), a national age 100m sprinter and GPS champion.
From Chris Stearn – Groom Head of House
Gentlemen, it is great to see us all together in a setting such as this.
As I was preparing this speech, to give on a night which is very much about transition from one fine leadership group to another, I reflected on my own recent transitions. In interviews to become a Boarding Housemaster you are almost always asked about the character and values you’d like represented by your House. A home from home, and a House where boys are respectful, happy and have the drive to be as successful as they can be, are always in the approximate ballpark of answers. In Groom House I think we are mostly there – and that’s not about what the staff do, but about how you, the boys, have adapted to change and risen to the high standards that we set for you. I know there are times when you moan about the rules - and however much you moan Jonty, wrestling in the common room won’t ever be acceptable. But I do believe that many of you actually enjoy coming back to Groom and appreciate the support that you get from the staff, which is second to none. I’ve said it before, but I couldn’t have been luckier to inherit Mr Hall, someone who regularly goes above and beyond to assist you, and to assist me. The tidying up, the organising and the secret ability to feed you all suppers whilst also stashing a box of chips for a special occasion! And then, Mr Farrell. Prior to his two years in Groom, Mr Farrell came from SA to be Director of Rugby at TGS. A job he ran impressively for longer than you have been alive. In recent discussions about how things seem to happen for good reason, he found himself as Assistant in Groom, and as we are all aware he is moving to BGS to run senior boarding next year. Boys – much of his enjoyment has been down to you and the way in which you have maturely adapted to change.
As I previously suggested, there has been plenty of conflict over the past years, but I think you all appreciated that this is healthy conflict, as it is for your benefit. Staff in Groom don’t take the easy options, but take the options which they believe will educate you and provide the best outcomes - checking Jai's phone overnight, talking to Jack Bornholt for hours on end, Mr Farrell and the Fitzy table tennis ball event, Joe Pringle just being Joe Pringle at lights out! We must also be thankful for our wonderful support from Mr McGovern and most recently Mr Bennett and Mr Callow (if anyone wants some cheap Asics runners then have a chat with Bob afterwards). Finally, we have a special guest here. I have said on numerous occasions that we are lucky to have Mrs Manassero supporting Groom Day House and it has been wonderful working in partnership with her – you may not realise how much importance she also puts on the care of boarders.
I must also thank you for making the House what it is. And most importantly the Year 12s. I know that the Year 11s are about to say a little about each of them, but it would be remiss of me not to say something myself. They were Year 11s when the 'post-McDonald regime' began and they didn’t always like the idea of following new rules – I can’t count how many times I asked a few of them to sit at their desk rather than on their bed during prep for example – but very quickly they realised the importance of their roles in leading the Boarding House. They have done this impressively well, led notably by George and PJ who have been wonderful leaders. These two have led by example but they are also two young men whose judgement I have always valued. They have the confidence to do what is right and the confidence to tell me the truths from their, and your, perspective, behind the closed doors of my office. I will be forever grateful for their support and what they have done to help create the Groom House we all experience today.
We also have to say goodbye to JP at the end of the year – off to an apprenticeship at home, as well as Alastair Simon, who was a boarder until the end of 2021. It’s lovely that you were so keen to join us tonight; I know the boys were glad you could come.
To all leavers – good luck. We are always here if you need any support and advice, or simply if you want to pop in to say hello while you are in town and waiting for your curry order to be served on a Saturday night!
It has been such an honour to, along with PJ, lead Groom House this year. With such a diverse group of boys, there's always something different happening in the House, and it has been such a joy to experience. But what is so great about our House is your ability to embrace the difference in the room next to you. You often hear people telling young lads to "put their differences aside and get along". However, while this is an effective way to avoid conflict in the short term, no meaningful relationship is ever formed. Every day within Groom House, I can feel this unwavering sense of belonging and community where each boy, despite his unique qualities and interests, is able to find value in some form. I'm not ignorant enough to believe that no conflict exists within the House, but I notice a great amount of maturity amongst you boys, and I know many are quite easily resolved. These qualities have had us dubbed by many as the best House, filled with the finest young men in the School - something you should all be very proud of.
But boys, don't be fooled; it's no fluke that our House is filled with such great young blokes such as yourselves. Much of the credit is due to the invaluable mentors who care for us on a day-to-day basis. Each of our MoDs offers a different personality and influence, making the perfect team. Mr Stearn, despite his stature and funny accent, is someone I would always want in my corner in an argument; his caring yet stubborn nature has meant that he has been able to provide for our House in more ways than you can imagine. If we need something done, Mr Stearn can always be trusted to voice our opinions and make needed change, something I respect him deeply for. Then there is Mr Farrell, a much-needed character in a boarding house environment. Never have I met somebody so sure about their values and so able to help others evaluate and strengthen theirs. I can personally attest to the way my character has developed under the guidance of my mentors, Mr Farrell and his sidekick, Mr Westman; you both have changed my life and perspective by an unimaginable measure, something I and many others, will be forever grateful for. PJ also wanted me to add that he won't miss being trapped in one of your rants about AI taking over the world or the importance of the PARTY program. And, of course, Mr Hall, we are all so thankful to have had you along the journey with us since the beginning; there is simply no one who can do the job like you. Your genuine care for us does not go unnoticed, and your small gestures of kindness always make our day. Bob, Harry and Mr McGovern, whilst our time together with you has only been short, you have all gained our utmost respect over the past few months, and we are all so glad to have you in our lives. I speak for all of us now when I say that you all are truly changing lives for the better, and there is no other House I would want to have resided in. Boys, I will truly miss each and every one of you and will cherish the memories made here. From writing Ed and Hamo's English assignments, telling Lorenzo to be quiet after lights out, or shaking your hands after you came to support me, Jonah and the twins on a Saturday. Whether you realise it or not, I am deeply proud of my relationships with all of you, and your faces and character will never be forgotten. Lads, never sacrifice your relationships with the blokes in this room for anything, whether that means you must concede an argument in which you know you're right or take the time out of your day to comfort a struggling mate; you will not regret it. It will be these relationships which you lean on in your own times of need. Make memories and enjoy yourselves; your time at the School is much briefer than it may seem, don't finish with any regrets.
From Campbell Gourley – House Captain 2024
Good evening, boarding staff and boys.
Mr Stearn suggested that I might talk about how myself, my vice-captain, Xavier, and what the current Year 11 boys hope to achieve next year. But continuing the legacy left by the current leaders is a significant aim, so I think it is more important to simply appreciate and congratulate the current Year 12s. All of you have made this place a better place than it was before you came here. Whether that was George and PJ making sure that no one was ever late to roll call, or Sam, Lew and Tom being continual good examples of what not to do. No, but seriously, each one of you boys have done an unreal job at making sure that not only does the House run smoothly but making sure that all the boys have a very good idea what it means to be a good Groom man. All of you are great examples of that. That’s why the entire house and I would like to thank each and every one for your time in Groom. Whether it's throwing unbeatable touch plays, leaving the Stevens boys absolutely baffled, or the old ‘I have absolutely no idea how to do this impossible Year 9 maths question’ which you boys are able to do in 30 seconds - well some of you are! Or just the hours and hours that we spend together talking garbage about the weekend's adventures. You will all be missed.
Now I would like to personally thank Griff. You have been an unreal Captain this year and you truly do demonstrate the perfect image of the man that we would all like to leave this House as. I hope that next year I can be half the captain that you have been. To be able to perfectly balance the respect that the younger boys show you and also being able to have proper friendships with each member of the House is just one of the many things that I will hope to develop myself. The impact on the House that you have made whilst also being able to handle the things that you, along with most of us, don’t necessarily agree, is one thing that I know I speak for the whole House when I say we are all thankful for it. The number of arguments in the common room that you have stopped from ever happening just by being a calm voice would be impossible to count.
You have all been an unbelievable leaders and are even better blokes. I am sure that the House will not be the same without any of you and I wish you all the best in whatever big plans you have. I hope that we as 2024 leaders we can all continue and add our own features to the great House that you have leave behind.
Mackintosh House
From the Head of Mackintosh House - Brad Allen
Mackintosh House Formal Dinner @ Burke and Wills - Wednesday, 13 September 2023
The Men of the Manor dressed with class in their best jackets and boots for the Mackintosh House Formal Dinner. The boys had a great time enjoying bougie food, drinks and the company of friends and family. A final farewell was wished to the incredible Year 12s of 2023 by the upcoming leaders of Mackintosh House. Each Year 11 boarder gave a speech to recognise each Year 12 boy and their contributions to the House, their achievements and their ambitions for the years to come. We were blessed with a special guest, the father of House Captain, Clancy O'Connor and a Toowoomba Grammar Old Boy, Rick McCosker, to provide us with some words of experience and advice before concluding the evening with a toast to Year 12.
Ben Cooper, Year 12
Wednesday, 13 September 2023, was a special occasion where Mackintosh House boarders, families and staff were able to come together and celebrate the past 12 months in Mackintosh House. In addition to the Year 11 Boarders mentioned above by Ben Cooper in his article above, boys from Years 8 to 10 also shared their reflections on the year and wished Year 12 well for the future in their own way. Lathan Naris, Year 8, Noah Grob and Herbert Roger, Year 9, and Josh Smart and Brody McInnerney, Year 10, spoke perfectly on this important occasion.
During the evening, we also introduced our 2024 Seniors and House Captains who are transitioning into senior roles in Mackintosh House.
It was a privilege to share the evening with the parents, family members, boarders and staff who were able to attend. The boys presented themselves impeccably in coats and ties for the evening. This will be an annual event and will be held next year on Wednesday, 11 September 2024.
The Apex Club of Toowoomba Young Citizen Award is awarded to a male and a female Year 12 student who has performed exceptional service to the community through extra-curricular activities. Students are nominated by their school principals, shortlisted by a committee and voted on by the Apex Club. Matty was nominated for his contributions to the Pinnacle Challenge Kokoda Team, his fundraising services and his services to the School's Interact Club, among other activities.
Apex Australia is a vibrant and energetic volunteer service organisation focused on harnessing the ideas, ideals and intelligence of primarily younger Australians. Apex runs activity camps, builds childcare centres, raises money for homeless charities, helps refugees settle into the community, runs a chalet in the snow and was a driving force behind the Flying Doctor Service, Guide Dogs and many other charities.
Matty Wise is the winner of the APEX Youth Citizen Award. Matty is a boarder at Mackintosh House at Toowoomba Grammar School. His family home is in Dalby, but Matty is committed to supporting any community he can, as well as supporting individuals in the boarding school community. Matty is a friend-raiser by helping others and is a fundraiser for any worthwhile cause. Matty is a mentor and coach for boys, young and old, in the Toowoomba Grammar School community and the broader community.
Matty competed in and was a volunteer organiser of the AEIOU 'Take a Hike' 2023 event and completed the 10km run for the charity.
Matty was an organiser and supporter of a car donation from Gip's Restaurant to PROTEA Place in Toowoomba. Matty was the leader of the clean-up and preparation of the vehicle before delivering the vehicle to Protea Place Toowoomba. Protea Place Women's Support Centre - Support, Dignity & Safety.
Matty is always giving of his time for others in TGS Community and further afield. He helps and supports others every day through his impeccable character and genuine care as he helps and serves others.
Matty has been an exceptional leader this year and thoroughly deserves this special recognition.
We have had a large number of boys who have made significant achievements and been recognised for their continued efforts.
Mackintosh Boys Awardsed Colours
Thomas Bailey – Honour Colours Rugby
Clancy McCosker – Full Colours Rugby
Samson Chow – Half Colour Rugby
Hershel Naris – Half Colours Cadets
Aidan Munchenberg – Half Colours Cadets
Fraser Coleborn – Full House Colours
Employment
Darby Humphreys has been appointed to a Mechanical Apprentice Program with Brown and Hurley in Kyogle in 2024. This will be Darby's last term at TGS; Darby has worked hard to secure this desired role.
Ryan McKay has been employed by Toowoomba Toyota. Ryan will complete a school-based apprenticeship, working one day a week at Toyota over the next two years.
Rugby Representation in the School Holidays
Tom Bailey was selected and played for Qld Grey (B) and the AUS Barbarians over the holidays. This was challenging but a great experience for him.
Cale Maurice and Bodhi Boheme both played for SEQ in the Emerging Reds Rugby Program. Bodhi has been selected to be part of the 15s Qld Reds Rugby Academy.
Cricket
During the last few months Rhys Johnston has been representing the Darling Downs in the U17s Taverners Competition in Brisbane. This has meant extra training and matches for Rhys each Sunday in the lead up to the TGS and GPS cricket seasons.
Cadets March Out 2023
CPL Aidan Munchenberg was presented with the Honour Guard TGS 49th Battalion Association and Social Club Plaque.
Brymaroo Camp Draft 2023
Last Friday, Josh and Archie Smart, along with their father Ben, competed at the Brymaroo Camp Draft.
Josh won the Juvenile Campdraft and placed 3rd in the Maiden with the highest cutout score, and Archie placed 3rd in the Juvenile Campcraft.
Congratulations to all the boys mentioned for these wonderful achievements.
As a final farewell to the 2023 Year 12 Mackintosh House boarding cohort, on Sunday, 15 September, the Seniors got together for a 'Last Supper': our final dinner before the external exam period begins. The dinner consisted of world-class cheeseburgers and BBQ honey soy chicken wings while watching PNG demolish the Cook Islands in the Rugby League Pacific Nations Cup. Then, the evening was finished off with a range of MaxiBons for dessert. Overall, the boys had an excellent last night, cooking their own meal, full of banter and laughter as we reminisced about the good times and quotes that we shared over the past few years, such as "I don't get sunburnt, the sun gets samburnt" and the countless games of Touch out the back. As we depart the House to move our separate ways, times like these are essential reminders of the strong mateship that the boarding house can build and the everlasting memories we will carry with us.
We also hung our departing timber plaques and brands in the common room, this is a Year 12 Seniors rite of passage and departing ritual.
Toowoomba Grammar School took an excited group of 14 years old rugby players to Darwin to compete in the Darwin Hottest 7s Tournament over the first weekend of Term 3. Darcy Coleborn, Archie Smart and Noah Grob traveled with the team and made significant contributions in the games. The TGS Boys made the final but were defeated in a classy game by Dragons Rugby. To see more photos of the Darwin Hottest 7s, please visit the Facebook page From the Sideline Sports Photography run by Rosiland Lavercombe, grandmother of Mackintosh House boarder, Rhys Lavercombe.
Welcome back to the sprint to the finish line. I hope the break was a good one and you enjoyed having your boys back for a couple of weeks. We enjoyed the quiet and had a few days down at the coast. Broadbeach was a little bit chilly, so we are thinking of warmer locations for next year. Coco spent two weeks in total confusion spending long stretches of the evening, when we were home, lying at the door to the boarding house and wondering why he was not getting to eat popcorn, pretzels or anything else that generally misses the mouths of boarders and ends up on the carpet! Now he is back in the house, wishing it was still the holidays based upon his most recent appearance!
This term will race by and as you read this, we will be approaching the halfway point of the term. It is a busy few weeks and for our Year 12 boys, it is a chance to reflect on their memories, their mates and think about what lies ahead. At some point in the term, we will have a night out in town; last year, the Zak’s Year 12 Casual Dinner was a highlight. This gives the senior boys an evening to ‘just be’ with their House mates. As the Year 12 ATAR boys approach their External Assessment examinations, they take our very best wishes and we hope their outcomes and achievements are reflective of their efforts. Last weekend, the Year 12 boarders headed down to the coast where they enjoyed a day at the wakeboard park on the giant inflatable course.
Putting the kettle on the other day in the kitchen, Kate called to tell me that it looked like our garden had become some kind of refugee processing centre. It appeared that demand for places in Stephens boarding was exceeding supply and some students may have placed swags in the garden to try and secure entry into Stephens House 2024. I had forgotten to mention to my wife that Campbell and Jack had bought heavily discounted swags at the grand opening of the new BCF on James Street, and the boys rested the waterproofing at my place before packing them away ahead of summer adventures. The new BCF is within easy walking distance of the campus and is destined to become a firm favourite for weekend or afternoon leave. Nathan Richter joined the initial group of intrepid explorers headed off to BCF and they were also joined by boarder-with-house-close-by, Alex Dyer, who elected to cycle - just not as quickly as Ed Rogan (refer to final article).
On Saturday, the Stephens boarders participated in the Cardio for Care day, raising money for the St Vincent de Paul Society. Well done to all in Boyce House for their work in organising and administering the event and a big congratulations to all participants. A reminder that 2024 will be our turn to step up and commit to raising funds for the Toowoomba Hospice.
GRIT - Gratitude, Respect, Integrity, Trust
For some years, Mr Tranberg has ‘managed the mantra’ of Stephens House. And with some results. I sincerely believe that the culture in the House is exceptional and this is the result of hard work over a long period of time. The work put in by a series of Heads of and Assistant Heads of House is one thing; however, the continuity of service provided by Mr Tranberg, accompanied by his hard work with all of the boys who pass through his care is another. To this end, ‘Respect, Integrity and Trust’ has been something that the House has lived and breathed, and it will continue to do so, with one key adjustment. ‘Grit’ is a form of determination and resilience – a quality that we want to be at the heart of all TGS graduates. The ‘G’ is the final quality that I am going to look to add to the mantra. Gratitude is a characteristic that is often overlooked and we have spent some time in House Meetings discussing just how lucky and privileged we are to be a part of this incredible community and if we practice ‘gratitude’ as a part of our character development, our community will be stronger.
This weekend, via the Cardio for Care program, our boys showed us all what GRIT is all about.
If you are feeling brave, click below to see Alen Vargese, and others, on the Zumba Stage last weekend.
The Importance of Connection
Last week I received an email from Henry Maunder’s mum, Justine. Henry (Year 9) joined us from TAS about a year ago and has flourished in Stephens. An enthusiastic, and able, tennis player and cricketer – Henry can be found in the nets or on court most days after school. Justine mentioned that a Japanese gentleman, who is a good friend of Henry’s grandfather, was keen to have a hit on court. I limped across to take some photographs and, in the process, have a hit with Campbell Newell – just to see how long my recovery period is going to be… long was the answer to that question!
Henry and Noriji, who is aged 78 years, had a hit and it was a pleasure to watch them play. Henry’s grandfather, David, also attended. The power of connection is really important and even more so when the connection is inter-generational and international. This term affords all boys with incredible opportunities to have a go at something else. Connect with new mates and connect with a new sport. I just felt that the Boarders' Telegraph was a great place to share this with the wider Stephens community and it may be something to have a conversation with your boys about in the Christmas holidays. Setting targets for 2024 is something that we will speak about in the House and I feel that it is really important to set targets that go beyond the norm – classroom and sports field.
Olympic Ambition
Outgoing House Captain, Ed Rogan has been travelling to Brisbane these last few weeks to follow a sporting pathway which could lead, ultimately, to the Brisbane Olympics. A thorough talent identification program (that somehow missed yours truly and his – now stolen – ebike!) has seen Ed put into a track cycling program. Riding a bike without breaks, without gears and without an electric battery (or so he says) around a velodrome (French for oval track stadium) whilst wearing head to toe spandex, at top speed, is the name of the game.
Track cycling is enormously popular in Europe and Japan. Australia has a fine tradition of road cycling success and has started to make inroads in the track events such as the pursuit and the kirin.
Over the next few weeks, Ed will continue following this program and decisions will be made in time, based around his data/times etc as to whether Cycling Australia and Ed Rogan are a marriage made in green and gold… lycra. Best wishes, Ed!
Year 10 Driver Safety
As a part of the WCD course being developed by Mr Oliphant and taught by specialist pastoral teachers, the boys took a trip to the Clifford Gardens race track to hear about driver safety. Wellbeing and Character Development is a new curriculum focus area and all Year 10 boys follow a course of lessons focused upon growing in these areas. Boarders of character - their development and affording opportunity - is a pillar of the School development program and the WCD unit speaks to this area.
All Year 10 Stephens boarders took part and learned about road safety from, in some cases, victims of road traffic accidents. The most engaging practical display saw students have to estimate how far it took a car travelling at 50kph to stop. TGS estimates had devastating consequences, as the video below shows.
As our boarders begin to drive on P plates and L plates, it is important to heed the warnings around speed and distractions to ensure that our community does not contribute to the devastating statistics around road deaths.
Taylor House
From the Head of Taylor House - Eugene Massi
It's the Final Countdown
It's been a great start to the term with all boys settling in nicely. Term 4 packs a real punch, with the excitement of the Christmas holidays fast approaching, the finish line is still just far enough to remember there is quite the list of items to complete before the boys can finally breathe a final sigh of relief.
Success should be celebrated. Well done to our Taylor boys for their diligent work and outstanding efforts.
Pro Summa Diligentia Award - Steven Osborne and Alistair McKay.
Pro Diligentia Award - Charles Rogers, James Elms, Illy Baravilala, Archie Cass, Mitch Neilsen, Will McKay, Harry Rogers and Chayce Smith.
Intra-House Cup - Taylor House began its Intra-House competition this term with 3v3 basketball. The small half court became a colosseum of action and competition as all boys hotly contested the coveted prize of a KFC Zinger Box. Congratulations to Team 4: Will McDowall, Ryan Allan, Tom Croft, Illy Baravilala, Alistair McKay and Cameron Graham. Week 3 has the boys competing in European Handball... can Team 4 continue their winning ways?
Queensland State Championships in Track and Field – Congratulations to our two Taylor boys, Will McKay and Nick Denny representing Darling Downs. Both Will and Nick competed at the highest levels making their respective 100m finals, with Nick placing 3rd. Nick also went on to win the 4x100m with TGS school mate, Taj Gordon from Groom. Well done boys!
TGS Cadets March Out Parade – a wonderful March out Parade from our very own Angus Pitkin. Angus has worked diligently within the TGS Cadet unit this year and has represented his School, House and self with honour. We are very proud of your efforts and we wish you well as you continue to climb the ranks.
This week we begin the first of the farewells to our Year 12 boys. We celebrate the years of achievement this week at House assembly. To Charles Rogers, Campbell Chappel, George Swanson, Tristen Bayntun, Charlie Mitchell, Steven Osborne, Cameron Graham and House captains Mitchell Hay and Reuben Hoare... we thank you for your guidance and support of each other and the boys in Taylor House. You will be missed and we wish you well.
Regards
Eugene Massi
From the Taylor House Captain - Mitchell Hay
Dear
Boarding families,
The
year in boarding has flown, and the end is extremely close. The boys in Taylor House
have proven themselves to be responsible and respectful with all the changes
that have occurred throughout the year, including new staff members, rules and
additions to the House. All Years 11 and 12 students have
attended at least one Rosie’s Friends on the Street session, which involves going out and cooking a BBQ for
the less fortunate in Toowoomba. This allows the boys to understand and
appreciate how fortunate we all are to live the lives that we do.
As
my time as a boarder is coming to an end, I was asked to
reflect on my time at TGS, and it has been an eye opener. From moving from home
where I had four other classmates in Year 10, to here with 170 in Year 11, it was more
than a shock for me. I couldn't work out how everyone somehow knew each other
and were able to easily talk to anyone about anything. I now understand, we
live with each other constantly and having our mates around us makes
everything so much easier, although sometimes it may get between us all. At the
end of the day, we were all there for each other when needed. Living in a House where
the boys ages range from 12 to 18 can be difficult sometimes, but after boarding for two years, it is exceptionally easy to make solid
friendships with boys across all year levels, and hope that you can unintentionally
teach the younger boys some things about respect and positively influence them
for later in life.
I
will be forever grateful for my time at TGS and in Taylor.